It was the D-day for me, i was finally getting my divorce after separating from my now X-Husband for over one and a half years. It was the family court in
Bandra, the court had a huge big Hall, a court room and two Counselling rooms attached to the main Hall. The hall had a couple of benches for people to sit on. The hall was bustling with people, people moving here and there at a fast pace, advocates in their white attire getting papers in place, a few couples( waiting to get separated formally!) and their family members. Support staff yelling names of the next person to get into the court. I was sitting on one of the benches awaiting my turn,
that's when these couples caught most of my attention.
One of them looked like the urban-chick variety, they were not accompanied by any family members, just the two of them ( a lot of courage, i must say) initially when they entered the room, they had this cold shoulder for each other, they would not even dare look into each others eyes, apart from the few moments when their lawyer had to tell them something, they did not even look in each other's direction. Then, the lawyer disappeared ( for some work) and they were there standing alone. The guy was standing in a corner of the room and the girl standing almost near the gangway. Due to her position she had to constantly move to allow passage of people coming in and out of the room. After 5 min, the guy just got out of his corner and subtly put the girl in the corner he was standing, so that she could stand comfortably. I noticed a slight smile on her face and
that's it, after that they both started chatting as though nothing was wrong with them. That attitude was sweet :-)
Then their was this huge fat girl standing next to me, she was constantly chatting with her lawyer, i could not help but over overhear :-) Imagine, she was here to get her divorce and all the time she would talk to her lawyer only about her husband! She went like this " If i ever bump into my husband ten years from now, i know very well that we will still fall in love with each other" What was that ?????? Honey, you are already preparing to separate!!
That was a stupid attitude!
Then there was this another girl with her father, her husband was smartly standing a few feet apart, pretending he is normal. Her father yelling at the top of his voice about how badly his daughter has been mistreated by the guy's family. He looked virtually perturbed, worried about his daughter's future and knowing he had almost no control on the event of things happening.
The guy would listen to him, but pretend nothing was wrong and at times would try to control his giggle.
That was bitter attitude!
And now about me, nothing much happened, we did not converse, nor did we have any cold shoulder towards each other, no bitter talks either! We simply awaited our turn, went in to the court room, their a
Lady, Ms.
Rao, announced the following:
"By the Decree of the court, you both are no longer husband and wife. The marriage now stands dissolved!"